Unconditional Love

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE
Sometimes, We don’t understand why our parents stop us from doing something what we always want to do? They always try to stop us from buying the thing which attracts us too much in the market. Here there is a story which will reveal why our parents stop us from doing anything.
A young man was getting ready to graduate from college. For many months, he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer’s showroom and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted. The boy knew that he is going to receive that car on the day of his graduation. He greeted his father everyday and told him how much he loves him.
As graduation day approached, the young man awaited signs that his father had purchased the car. Finally, on the morning of his graduation, his father called him into his private study. His father told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautiful wrapped gift box.
Curious, but somewhat disappointed, the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather bound Bible, with the young man’s name embossed in Gold. Angrily, he raised his voice to his father and said, “With all your money, you gave me a Bible? “ and stormed out of the house, leaving the Bible and did not come back to find out how his father lived without him. There was no one else to take of his father. After the man left his home, his father awaited his son’s return.
Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business. He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his father was very old and thought perhaps he should go to him. He had not seen him since that graduation day.
Before he could make any arrangement s, he received a telegram telling him his father had passed away and willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed to come home immediately and take care of things.
When he arrived at his father’s house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart. He began to search through his father’s important papers and saw the still new Bible, just as he had left it years ago.
With tears, he opened the Bible and began to turn the pages. His father had carefully underlined a verse, “And if ye, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more shall your Heavenly Father which is in heaven, give to those who ask Him?”
As he read those words, a car key dropped from the back of the Bible. It had a tag with the Dealer’s name, the same dealer who had the sports car he had desired. On the tag was the date of his graduation, and the words….. paid in full. How many times do we misunderstand our parents if they don’t do the same as we expect. But before its too late, one must understand the motive behind the way of their parents upbringing and that the parents love their children unconditionally no matter what will be the outcome. They love them, nurture them, take care of them selflessly.
There is no other relationship in this world which is unconditional.

WINNERS VERSUS LOSERS

-The Winner is always part of the answer;The Loser is always part of the problem.
-The Winner always has a program;The Loser always has an excuse.
-The Winner says, "Let me do it for you";The Loser says, "That is not my job."
-The Winner sees an answer for every problem;The Loser sees a problem for every answer.
-The Winner says, "It may be difficult but it is possible";The Loser says, "It may be possible but it is too difficult."
-When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, "I was wrong";When a Loser makes a mistake, he says, "It wasn't my fault."
-A Winner makes commitments;A Loser makes promises.
Winners have dreams;Losers have schemes.
Winners say, "I must do something";Losers say, "Something must be done."
Winners are a part of the team;Losers are apart from the team.
Winners see the gain;Losers see the pain.
Winners see possibilities;Losers see problems.
Winners believe in win-win;Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.
Winners see the potential;Losers see the past.
Winners are like a thermostat;Losers are like thermometers.
Winners choose what they say;Losers say what they choose.
Winners use hard arguments but soft words;Losers use soft arguments but hard words.
Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.
Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you would not want them to do to you";Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you."
Winners make it happen;Losers let it happen.
Winners plan and prepare to win.
The key word is preparation.

INSPIRATION

Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air. You name them WORK, FAMILY, HEALTH, FRIENDS and SPIRIT and you are keeping all of these in the air. You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass.
If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably suffered, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered. They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.
How? Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special. Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you. Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as they would your life, for without them, life is meaningless. Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.
Don’t give up when you still have something to give…….

10 SELF MOTIVATING TECHNIQUES

1. Give yourself the gift of an activity which you love to do.
2. Try and divide the work you detest, in simple steps.
3. Do a choice for someone else.
4. Do some activity each day which you don’t want to do.
5. Set aside just a span of 5 minutes for your grooming.
6. Eat one thing which you like daily.
7. Negate the negative thought.
8. Give yourself compliments. Don’t wait for others to do that.
9. Write this on a piece of paper “I AM GOOD” and place it at a conspicuous
place. BELIEVE in it.
10. Never forget to smile.

ALPHABETS OF HAPPINESS

A-ACCEPT
Accept others for who they are and for the choices they have made even if you have difficulty understanding their beliefs, motives or actions.
B-BREAK AWAY
Break away from everything that stands in the way of what you home to accomplish with your life.
C-CREATE
Create a family of friends whom you can share your hopes, dreams, sorrows, and happiness with..
D-DECIDE
Decide that you will be successful and happy come what may, and good things will find you. The roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way.
E-EXPLORE
Explore and experiment. The world has much to offer, and you have much to give. And every time you try something new, you’ll learn more about yourself.
F-FORGIVE
Forgive and forget. Grudges only weigh you down and inspire unhappiness and grief. Soar above it, and remember that everyone makes mistakes.
G-GROW
Live the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer hurt you or stand in your way.
H-HOPE
Hope for the best and never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain dedicated to the task.
I-IGNORE
Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals and remember your accomplishments. Your past success is only a small inkling of what the future holds.
J-JOURNEY
Journey to new worlds, new possibilities, by remaining open-minded. Try to learn something new every day, and you will grow.
K-KNOW
Know that no matter how bad things seem, they’ll always get better. The warmth of spring always follows the harshest winter.
L-LOVE
Let love fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart, there’s room for nothing else, but when love is in your heart, there is room for endless happiness.
M-MANAGE
Manage your time and your expense wisely, and you’ll suffer less stress and worry. Then you’ll be able to focus on the important things in life.
N-NOTICE
Never ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak, or suffering. Offer your assistance when possible, and always your kindness and understanding.
O-OPEN
Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times, there is still much to be thankful for.
P-PLAY
Never forget to have fun along the way. Success means nothing without happiness.
Q-QUESTION
Ask many questions, because you are here to learn.
R-RELAX
Refuse to let worry and stress rule your life, and remember that things always have a way of working out in the end.
S-SHARE
Share your talent, skills, knowledge, and time with others. Everything that you invest in others will return to you many times over.
T-TRY
Even when your dreams seem impossible to reach, try anyway. You’ll be amazed by what you can accomplish.
U-USE
Use your gifts to your best ability. Talent that’s wasted has no value. Talent that’s used will bring unexpected rewards.
V-VALUE
Value the friends and family members who’ve supported and encouraged you, and be there for them as well.
W-WORK
Work hard every day to be the best person you can be, but never feel guilty if you fall sort of your goals. Every sunrise offers a second chance.
X-X-RAY
Look deep inside the hearts of those around you and you’ll see the goodness and beauty within.
Y-YIELD
Yield to commitment. If you stay on track and remain dedicated, you’ll find success at the end of the road.
Z-ZOOM
Zoom to a happy place when bad memories or sorrow rear their ugly head. Let nothing interfere with your goals. Instead, focus on your abilities, your dreams, and a brighter tomorrow.

DAD & SON's CONVERSATION

Son & Daughter Thinks of His/Her Daddy

At 4 Years
My daddy is great.

At 6 Years
My daddy knows everybody.

At 10 Years
My daddy is good but is short tempered

At 12 Years
My daddy was very nice to me when I was young.

At 14 Years
My daddy is getting fastidious.

At 16 Years
My daddy is not in line with the current times.

At 18 Years
My daddy is becoming increasingly cranky.

At 20 Years
Oh! Its becoming difficult to tolerate daddy. Wonder how Mother puts up with him.

At 25 Years
Daddy is objecting to everything.

At 30 Years
It's becoming difficult to manage my son. I was so scared of my father when I was young.

At 40 Years
Daddy brought me up with so much discipline. Even I should do the same.

At 45 Years
I am baffled as to how my daddy brought us up.

At 50 Years
My daddy faced so many hardships to bring us up. I am unable to manage a single son.

At 55 Years
My daddy was so far sighted and planned so many things for us. He is one of his kind and unique.

Thus,it took 56 years to complete the cycle and come back to the 1st. stage.Realize the true value of your parents before its too late

Don't Copy if you cant paste .....

A Famous Inspirational Speaker Said :
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"Best Years of my life were spent in the Arms of a WOMAN who was not My WIFE".

Audience was in Shock & Silence.

He added :

"SHE WAS MY MOTHER"

Applause & Laughter!

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A Top Manager tried to crack this at Home.

After a good 3-4 Drinks, he said loudly to his wife, in the kitchen :

" Best Years of my Life were spent in the arms of a Woman who was not my wife !

There was sudden silence !"
Standing for a Moment and trying hard to recall the 2nd Half of the sentence , he finally blurted out
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" Forget it , I can't remember who She was ".

By the time he regained his Senses, He was on a Hospital Bed recovering from Burns of Boiling Water.


Moral :
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DON'T COPY IF YOU CAN'T PASTE.